20 Same Sex Hookup Stories From Straight Guys


Real talk from straight and straight-ish guys.

Posted on April 18, 2017, 20:01 GMT

We recently
asked straight men of the
BuzzFeed Community to tell us about their experiences
hooking up with other guys. Here’s what they said:

And as a heads up, some of these stories get kinda graphic
and NSFW.

1. This spontaneous threesome:

“A guy once gave me his number out of the blue at a
restaurant. A few weeks later I was bored and horny (and a
little stoned) so I called him. He invited me over to his
place to watch porn with him and his roommate. It wasn’t long
before we were all in bed having a threesome. I’m happily
married to a woman now, but I’m glad I did that back then. It
was fun and it felt good.

You don’t have to be gay to enjoy playing with a dick at some


2. This fleeting moment of

“I was in a weird place after a messy break up with a
long-term girlfriend when I was about 24. I don’t really know
how or why I started, but I began watching and getting off to
gay porn. The thing is, outside of watching porn, I don’t
find men attractive at all. I have never checked out or
noticed another man in a real-life situation, but I can
completely fantasize about it if I’m watching gay porn.

So after a few months of regularly getting off to gay porn I
decided to seek out an opportunity to experiment and met with
a guy in a parking lot of a local store. We went for a short
drive and talked for a few minutes and I started backing out
so he took me back to my car. We pulled up beside my car and
he gave a last shot at keeping things going and asked if I
just wanted to try holding his dick, and I agreed. He took it
out and I started giving him a hand job, which lasted about a
minute before I just went for it and started blowing him. I
blew him for a few minutes in his car and then we decided I’d
jump in my car and follow him back to his place just a few
minutes away. We got to his house and I got back to sucking
his dick on his couch, and he got my shorts off and rubbed my
dick some while I blew him.

After a few minutes he wanted to switch and go down on me,
that’s when everything sort of hit. He was really excited to
blow me, but I wasn’t the least bit hard and nothing he was
doing was making it happen. I was just over it at this point
— told him I was sorry but I needed to go, and bailed
quickly. I felt bad ditching the guy. He seemed nice enough,
but I had my moment of experimentation and realized it wasn’t
what I was into.”


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3. This opportunity to date a great guy
because why not:

“I met a friend of a friend who was somehow into me. I was
single and 23 at the time and selfishly thought, ‘Welp,
somebody thinks you’re funny and attractive, you’d totally do
Chris Hemsworth, why not give it a go?’ He was a super great
guy, we had a lot in common and enjoyed each other’s company,
and we unofficially dated for about a month or two.

Fooling around with him was fun, but when it came down to
actual *sex* sex (I’d top and he’d bottom), I wasn’t as
nearly attracted to it as I am with women. I distanced myself
without officially breaking up, and I never heard from him


4. This exhibitionist makeout

“I was at a typical high school party in sophomore year and
my best friend Matt and I were egging on some girls to make
out. They told us that we have to first if we want them to,
so being close bros and all, we started to make out. More
girls started looking and were actually getting quite turned
on so we started getting more into it because we knew if we
give it our all we’ll get something better after. The reward
afterwards was totally worth it!

We’re still the best of friends, and I’m still straight but
he’s bi (not sure if it’s something he realized after this
event and I don’t want to ask). We just laugh it off as a
good story now.”


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5. This whiskey-drinking date:

“My first hook-up with a guy was a few years ago with a guy I
met on Whisper. I’d been curious for a while before this
happened. He identifies as gay. We drank some whiskey and one
thing led to another and we ended up sucking each other’s
dicks and making out for a while.”

—26/Male/Identify as straight

6. These handjobs between BFFs:

“I considered myself totally hetero at the time. I was
hanging out with my BFF since fourth grade, who’s gay. We
were probably both 19 or so. On two occasions, we put on some
porn, starting masturbating, then gave each other (very
excellent) hand jobs. I enjoyed the hell out of it until he
came, and was freaked out/grossed out by encountering another
dude’s semen. I never even considered getting involved with
another guy for years after, and am happily married to a
woman. But as I’ve gotten older and shed some cultural
baggage, I’ve allowed myself to be attracted to men, and
would totally date/sleep with the right guy.

It was a very positive experience; I learned a lot about
myself and LGBT issues, and the guy is still my BFF.”

—32/Cismale/Somewhere between straight and queer

7. These anonymous hookups:

“I had been curious about my sexual preference for awhile,
but I was a FratBro so there was no way I was gonna do it for
fear of someone finding out. So once I went to grad school in
another state, it seemed like the perfect time. I downloaded
Grindr and had quite a few hookups. I eventually realized
that I was doing all these anonymous hookups out of physical
attractions and mostly boredom. Hooking up with guys is a lot
easier than girls. Now I consider myself straight and looking
for the right girl with the occasional guy hookup when I’m


8. These adventures in

“When I was in middle school, a friend and I used to
‘experiment’ when one of us would spend the night. Nothing
ever went too far, typically just masturbating together and
occasionally jerking each other off. He was the one who
initiated it; it came about as a truth or dare game. I was
hesitant at first but eventually came around. It was fun but
nothing that I would do anymore.”


9. This not-entirely-great first

“I was 18 and just lost my virginity to a girl. I had always
wondered if I was actually gay, so I started looking at both
genders on Tinder. I matched with a 22-year-old guy and we
ended up having sex in the woods near his house. He was
actually really strange and I didn’t feel comfortable about
it at all. I’ve hooked up and had sex with other guys since
then, but always in a period of severe loneliness. I’m not
really sure I’m gay, but I’m probably not entirely straight
either. Looking back on it, I don’t regret all of my male
sexual experiences, but the first one has always left me
feeling a bit disgusted with myself.”

—20/Male/Most likely straight

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10. This frat party with a happy

“During my second semester in college, I ended up moving out
of the dorms and into the apartment of a friend I had from a
fraternity I was in. I kind of sensed that he was attracted
to me, but I never paid any mind to it. Everyone was pretty
sure he was gay, but none of that mattered. I myself was
known for sleeping around, and I was in an on-and-off
relationship, but never considered myself gay.

One night, we had a small party at our place, with people
coming and going all night. Things got wild, and I ended up
trashed. Everyone did.

Everyone ended up leaving, and I went to my room to wind
down. My roommate ended up stumbling into my room and landed
on my bed. I just laid there and blew it off. He started
getting handsy, and I immediately knew where this was going.
He told me to relax, and I was pretty horny anyways. He ended
up giving me a blowjob, and it was completely mind-blowing.
We ended up doing things the rest of the time I lived with
him. I eventually reciprocated, but we never did anything
aside from oral or masturbation.

Looking back, I have no regrets about any of it. I don’t
think it defined my sexuality, because I still identify as
straight. It was a good experience, and I wouldn’t change


11. This hookup after a buddy came out
as bi:

“When I was 13, one of my best friends told me he was bi.
Later that night at his house, we were watching a movie and
he started playing with my crotch with his feet, and ended up
unzipping my pants. He asked if he could give me a blowjob
and I said sure. He did, but I couldn’t give one to him
because it was too weird for me at the time. That was my
first sexual experience in general, let alone man-on-man
experience. I didn’t end up having sex with a girl until I
was 18, five years after that gay experience.”


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12. This ~ride~ home:

“One of my high school best friends is gay. One time I gave
him a ride home and he jokingly said, ‘I’d offer to blow you
but my tits are in the shop.’ I was 18 and probably just
hearing ‘tits’ was enough to get me hard. So I unzipped my
pants and took my dick out kind of joking, kind of not. He
started sucking and I kept driving until we got close to his
house and he told me to pull over and I blew my load in his
mouth and then he said he was going to eat my ass. He got out
of the car, walked around to the drivers side and opened my
door. I got out and leaned onto my car and he ate my ass for
a long time. This was on a suburban cul de sac (he loves puns
so maybe that was part of his plan). Anyway it was unreal. It
felt so good my legs were shaking. I kinda came again but
there wasn’t much and he said ‘you don’t have any more for
me?’ And I thought that was so hot that someone wanted my cum
that much.

I finished driving him home and stayed up all night kind of
grossed out, but not? Also I’m embarrassed to admit I worried
about AIDS. I was so nervous to see him at school. But he
claimed not to remember anything cause he was drunk. He
wasn’t that drunk though. Nothing like that has happened

We’re still friends; he’ll be a groomsman in my wedding next
year. No girl has ever offered to eat my ass. I’ve met a few
of his boyfriends and wonder if my dick is bigger than
theirs. This all makes me sound pretty gay but I’m really


13. This longtime friendship with

“We were friends that had known each other since first grade.
About the time we were 10 or 11, we changed in front of one
another and started to compare body parts. The two of us
comparing body parts continued to grow, and as we grew into
our adolescent years we began feeling each other,
experimented with hand jobs, blow jobs, and we ended up going
all the way. We were each other’s firsts for everything
sexually speaking, and it started out as just being curious
and figuring out what felt good sexually.

My friend and I still remain friends to this day. While we
were experimenting, we would both talk about what we were
doing with each other, and say that we both liked girls and
didn’t feel gay, but we were confused about why we would
always do homosexual things with each other. He was the only
guy I have ever hooked up with, and as far as I know, I was
the only dude he’s hooked up with. The sexual things we did
together stopped soon after high school, and we haven’t
brought it up since.”


14. This epic blowjob that has you
wondering if you’re straight after all:

“Me and my friends were out at the pub last Wednesday, and we
miiiiight have drank a bit too much. One thing led to another
and we were talking about how long it had been since each of
us had sex. We joked about giving each other blowjobs, and
one of my friends happened to be gay. He leaned over and
whispered he was going to give me the ‘best blowjob of my
life.’ Because I was so drunk, we went to the bathroom
together. I have to say it was a pretty good blowjob.

I thought I was straight. Now I’m not so sure.”

—21/Male/I don’t even know anymore

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15. This impulsive hookup:

“It was just a random hookup with a guy I met in town. It was
purely just for fun and for a different experience. I don’t
really think much about it now.

It took me a while to tell anyone about it but now I’m quite
open and comfortable with my sexuality.”


16. This effective stress-relief

“For me it happens spontaneously when stressed. I go through
most of my life not even considering gay sex, then I get some
kind of stress, usually work-related. Next thing I know I’m
literally bumping into guys cruising for sex and I’m almost
on gay autopilot. Afterwards I usually feel less stressed but
guilty as well.”


17. This visit to a gay spa:

“I’ve never been attracted to men, but I was curious for a
long time about what it’d be like to play with another
person’s cock. Eventually I ended up visiting a gay spa and
sucking off some random guy through a gloryhole.

I think my strongest memories were of being surprised at how
warm his cock was and how strongly I could feel his pulse
through it. I also had variations of ‘I can’t believe I’m
doing this’ running through my head for most of the time, but
that just made it better in a strange way.

Basically, it was a fun experience. It didn’t teach me
anything about my sexuality that I didn’t already know, but
it certainly satisfied my curiosity.”


18. This party dare that turned into
oral sex:

“I hook up with girls, mostly. I’m straight and proud, just a
little curious…but then again, isn’t everyone?

It happened two years ago, at the cliché setting of a frat
party. Half drunk, half sober, and fully turned on. I’d known
the guy since sophomore year of high school, and didn’t think
much if it at the time. A dumb kiss and a little grinding,
just guys having fun and occupying another while bored. My
(now ex) girlfriend had ditched me, and I was left with him
and a few friends. It wasn’t my first party, but I felt as if
it was. I spent most of the night eating candy from the snack
table, and drinking an odd mix of three different liquors. We
were close, used to one another, and we wanted to get rid of
our boredom, so dancing together wasn’t a big shit of a deal.
A group of girls said we were hot together, so we kissed. And
it actually affected me more than I thought it would. Before
I knew it we were going down on each other in my poor pal’s
room. I regret messing up the bedroom, not having sex.

I never regret sex. And hey, he got me off right?”


19. This post-shower naked hangout that
led to other things:

“My best friend lived with me for a time when we were 14. We
shared a room and one day he got out of the shower and walked
around the room totally naked and didn’t seem to think it was
awkward. Later that night when I took a shower I did the same
thing. We were both pretty fit for 14 year olds since we both
swam competitively. At that point I really realized I was
attracted to guys. That night we fooled around and made out
and eventually more. I’ve hooked up with a few guys in
between relationships — even friends — since then, but
entirely for sex.”


20. And this super sexy serenade that
led to a series of hookups:

“Four years ago, my best friend and I were hanging in my
house and playing Borderlands. I had recently read online
about the ‘I have a CRUSH on you’ achievement, and thought it
would be easy enough to do. When I asked him to help me with
it, he turned a vibrant shade of red. After teasing him a
little, I asked him if something was wrong. He then not only
came out to me, but confessed that he had a crush on me. I
was a little shocked, but I told him, ‘Wow. One: I should
have known, considering you have the entire musical
Wicked memorized. Two: You really have poor taste in

He playfully pushed me over and straddled me, saying ‘While
both are true, remember I’m the same guy; I can still kick
your scrawny ass.’ We laughed, until I realized we were
making dick-to-dick contact through our athletic shorts. I
got hard, he got hard, we both got hella embarrassed. He took
a deep breath, leaned in and started singing a song I now
know as ‘Dead Girl Walking.’ When I tried to squirm away he
leaned in and kissed me.

After the kiss, and once he got to a particular line, ‘I’ve
decided I must ride you till I break you,’ I realized how
sexual the situation could be. I sat up, realized that it
could be fun, and said ‘Fuck it,’ and we went at it. Let’s
just say he meant what he sang. We messed around occasionally
until we graduated, and then went our separate ways. I
sometimes wish I still could — he was honestly better in bed
in every way than my current girlfriend.”


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